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Saturday, September 14, 2013

5 Best Ways to Face Interview

 


Even the highly capable persons and big degree holders fail in the interviews. Facing interviews successfully is still one of the biggest challenge for youngsters to find jobs in big multinationals. Here I am going to give you 5 tips for facing an interview successfully.

1) Prepare Well: Prepare your folder well and arrange all the certificates properly. Usually you need: copies of your educational and experience certificates, bio-data, application (sent to the company) and avoid taking irrelevant documents.
2) Wear Proper Clothes: Wear a jacket, ride your bike and appear before the board like your favorite hero but you end up becoming a villain. You must wear clean & ironed formal dress to woo the board and do not forget to polish your shoes.
3) Control Your Nervousness: This is one of the biggest hurdle even highly talented people fail in the interviews because of nervousness. Nervousness is stored mental energy and you can use it in a positive manner:

1. Concentrate in preparing and forget every other thing,
2. Be well dressed, it will boost your confidence,
3. Eat light food because it will help you feel relaxed,
4. Pray to God for success,
5. Act confidently even if you feel lack of confidence,
6. Reach at the interview place 20-30 minutes before interview, it will help you feel confident,
7. Be brave and take it as a challenge which you have to achieve.


4) Speak Well: A candidate must have good command over language, correct pronunciation and grammar, good store of vocabulary and avoid answers in brief. Whenever you are asked to tell about yourself avoid telling your introduction in brief. You should always tell some important introductory lines about yourself like your name, age, qualification, experience, strengths, aim etc. Unless you are asked to give brief introduction don't introduce yourself briefly.
5) Never Show Cleverness: Many candidates try to act cleverly before interview board because every company needs sincere and hard-working employees. If you do not know the answer of any question just say I don't know. Never criticize anyone while speaking and always be polite and clear in your speaking. After finishing your interview always say the board 'thanking you very much' whether your interview has been good or bad.


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Friday, September 13, 2013

8 Ways to Apologize Without Saying “I’m Sorry.”


The phrase “I’m sorry” is supposed to make its recipient feel better, but thanks to a lifetime of misuse, it rarely completes its mission.  Indeed, it often requires assistance to have an impact, such as repetition, further explanation, multiple exclamation points, or even…groveling.

Somewhere along the way of evolution, the words “I’m sorry” picked up a couple of permanent connotation hitchhikers:  assumption of guilt and admittance of wrongdoing.  So when you say the words to someone, there is an implication that you are in some way responsible for the situation.

And yet, the word “sorry” is employed for a laughably wide range of circumstances, even those for which we are not to blame…from condolences over a death (I’m so sorry for your loss) to asking a speaker to repeat a sentence (Sorry…what did you say?) to the absolutely brilliant application my cab driver shouted at someone who cut us off last week (Get your sorry ass out of my lane, you @#$*!).  

The upshot?  We’ve all become desensitized to the word “sorry.”  So, when you really ARE at fault for something, its use as an apology seems trite and unrepentant.  And when you’re NOT at fault for something, its presence in your response gently paints you with a brush of culpability.

How do you win this communication war against the word’s multiple personality issue?  Stop using it.  Find other, more meaningful ways to express your feelings, and put careful thought into the appropriate response for the situation at hand.  Here are eight different phrases you can employ that express either justified remorse or peripheral acknowledgement of a situation:
It’s unfortunate that…
How sad for you that (this) happened…
I sympathize with your situation/disappointment/frustration…
What a shame that…
Will you please forgive my insensitivity/error/indiscretion…
I am completely at fault here, and I apologize…
I am unhappy about (or I regret) the pain/inconvenience you’ve been caused
This situation has filled me with regret…

These options are merely a short list…there are many other ways you can craft a suitable response without actually using the phrase “I’m sorry.”  So the next time you’re about to use it, check back to this list to see if one of them applies, and if not, spend a few moments defining your expression’s true meaning.

As to the cab driver, we’ll leave his colorful use of the word “sorry” alone.  It’s all part of what makes a cab ride in NYC so memorably entertaining, and offers humorous inspiration for topics on www.redpointspeaks.com.  Yep, we’re selfish…sorry about that.

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5 Ways to Handle Sexual Harassment

Yes, we know: This shouldn't be your responsibility. But these rules will help prevent an uncomfortable situation from getting worse.



As a woman and a 20-year Silicon Valley veteran, I'm intrigued by Ellen Pao's well-covered sexual harassment lawsuit against VC firm Kleiner Perkins. Everyone is innocent until proven guilty, including both Pao and KP, but certainly both sides of the case seem to have valid arguments.

Regardless of what happens, it's a reminder of just how male-dominated the business world remains in 2012--and why women who want to succeed in this world have to learn how to thrive in it. When it comes to dealing with unwanted attention or even all-out harassment, the challenge is how to take the incident seriously but manage it successfully, so that it doesn't stifle your business ambitions or sap your confidence. Here are a few takeaways that have helped me along the way.

Don't sweat the small stuff.

Part of working together every day with the same people includes joking around and, yes, even a bit of teasing. How many times have you heard a man give another man a hard time about his clothes or his habits, or even his work? It's how men often relate, and it's typically not personal. Men don't cry or shut down; they either roll their eyes or dish it back.  Learn to do the same. And if you get good and clever at dishing it back, you might be surprised at the additional respect you gain.

Draw a hard line.

Some joking and bantering is fun and tolerable; some isn't. When it isn't, call it out--immediately. Completely change your demeanor, be direct, make it very clear they've crossed a big line. It can be as simple as "OK, that wasn't funny" or as serious as "you are making me feel very uncomfortable right now, please stop." Even better if others are around to hear you. Trust me--no individual wants to be the accused in a harassment situation and if you treat it seriously, the other person probably will too.

Rise above the haters.

Sometimes it is personal and potentially damaging. My good friend Christine is VP of business development at a biotech firm. She is wicked smart, young, and beyond beautiful. She had spent months devising an M&A strategy for her company and was presenting for the first time to an all-male board. It was a risky recommendation to shift from forming partnerships to seeking acquirers and she anticipated some tough questions. An older male board member eyed her up and down obnoxiously, clearly not listening and attempting to throw her off her game. As she was speaking he interrupted and said to the CEO, "The first thing you need to do is get rid of the GIRL." Many would falter in this situation, which is what he wanted, but Christine thought "Oh, bring it on, Baldylocks." She stood a little taller, looking a bit more beautiful, looked him straight in the eyes, and shot back: "Well that's one option, or we can further examine the facts..." and went on to provide even more info for the board.

The meeting ended with near-unanimous support for her recommendations and a renewed respect for her from the rest of the board and her CEO. The board member was later removed due to his behavior in the meeting. She wins big, he loses. I know it's easier said than done, but in most cases you'll find that people don't want to see others harassed. Be confident in your intelligence and skills and rise above the jerks.

Put your business and pleasure mixture on ice. 

I can't say don't do it, or I'd be a hypocrite, but dating people you work with often leads to issues. One of Pao's claims is against a man with whom she says she had a consensual sexual relationship. I'm not saying he didn't harass her--maybe he did, and if so then it was wrong. But maybe he was someone she should have steered clear of in the first place? Think long and hard about whether or not a relationship at work is worth the risk. If it is, then keep your eyes open and be ready to handle the potential consequences.

Tell. Now.

If you're truly feeling harassed, document the situation immediately and report it. One of the biggest knocks against Ellen Pao is that supposedly she endured harassment for some time before officially reporting it. How can you get the support you need if no one knows what you're experiencing? If you're harassed by a co-worker or boss, talk to HR, as they are trained to deal with such matters with discreetness and in confidence.

The situation is obviously trickier if you're a female entrepreneur and the harassment comes from, say, a board member or potential investor. But remember: You never should have to endure harassment. Talk about the situation with someone you trust, perhaps another board member or investor and get their support. Then go directly to the harasser. Be clear and strong, and insist that the situation change--or you will make it change. It may seem extreme to think of removing one of your board members (or forgoing a much-needed investment), but it's really the only solution. You can't be an effective leader if you're more worried about your safety than your business--and your other board members and investors will surely agree.

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10 Easy Ways You Can Save Money Tonight!


Frugality isn’t a handful of big things that you do every once in a while to save cash. It’s a steady routine of little steps that, over time, add up to a big difference. Best of all, those little steps are the ones you choose. You can skip over the ones that impact your particular life in an unwanted way, but stick to the ones that cut spending in areas that you care a little bit less about.

For me, it’s simply a way of going about my life. I spend as little as possible in the areas I find less important so that I can maintain financial stability throughout my life and spend in those areas I do find important. This whole idea is threaded throughout my day to day life. Want proof? Here are ten things you can do this evening to cut your spending a little. Do them tonight and you’ll save a little bit. Keep the ones that work and make them part of your routine and you’ll find yourself saving quite a lot over time.
1. Make Dinner at Home…
When you make a meal at home, you cut out the cost of paying someone else to prepare the food, paying for that building’s location and maintenance, and also chipping in for a bit of business profit. If you tip, you’re also tossing some cash at the wait staff or the delivery guy. Those costs really add up, even for one meal, and if you do it repeatedly, that’s a lot of cash. Make it at home instead and cut out all of those extra costs.

Sure, eating out is more convenient, and if you feel less than confident in your cooking abilities, you might want to choose a meal made by someone else. The catch is that the cost is almost always far more than what you can make at home and most homemade meals really aren’t that time consuming either, particularly if you use a slow cooker and prepare something to cook slowly while you’re at work. Start with a great “teaching” cookbook like How to Cook Everything or watch a Youtube video or two on how to prepare something that seems tasty to you and before you know it, you’ll be prepared to make every meal you can imagine.
2. … But Make a Triple or Quadruple Batch and Freeze the Rest

If you’re already making a meal, make plenty of extras. This can save money in a lot of ways. First, you can freeze the extras and bring them out for quick lunches or dinners whenever you need something simple. With casseroles, for example, you can often prepare the whole thing and simply bring them out and toss them in the oven when needed. Alternately, if you completely cook more than you can eat for dinner, you can simply use the extras for leftovers. Pack them up and take them to work the next day.

Doing this means you can afford to buy ingredients in bulk, which can save you money. If I make four pans of lasagna at once, I can buy the bulk noodles and actually use all of them, for example.
3. Go For a Walk Before Dark, and Turn Off All of the Lights Before You Go

A walk is one of the best things you can do in the evening. It’s light to moderate exercise, which is great for your health. It’s completely free. It gets you out in the community, seeing people, and learning what there is to do near where you live (or, if you live in the country, you get to see the beautiful countryside).

Better yet, it can save you money. Turn off all of your lights before you leave, as well as other energy-eating devices (like your television and your computer). If you save 1,000 watt-hours while you walk, you’ll save $0.15 or so, and that’s actually pretty easy to do. Ten light bulbs, a computer, a computer monitor can easily add up to 1,000 watts, and if you walk for an hour, you’ve made it.

Make an evening walk a routine. You’ll feel better. Your energy bill will drop by about $5 a month if you turn off the lights before you go. You’ll also be taking proactive action for your long-term health.
4. Read a Book After Dark

You’re at home. It’s dark out. You’re feeling a bit tired, but you’d like to relax for an hour or so before bed. Try something different and don’t turn on the television or the computer. Instead, leave those energy-eating devices off and open up a book. Books can entertain. Books can teach. They’re also available in abundance for free at your local library and they require very little home energy to enjoy–I can easily read by a two or three watt LED lamp.

“But I fall asleep when I read!” If that’s the case, then it means you’re tired and you need to go to bed anyway. A lot of people don’t get enough sleep and falling asleep when you read or watch television is a good sign that you just need to go to bed.
5. Turn Off Climate Control and Open the Windows
Where I live, the only time it actually makes sense to use climate control is during the evenings and night in the wintertime and during only the hottest days in the summer. The rest of the time, the temperature is constantly somewhere between 50 F and 80 F outside, so why run the air conditioning or the furnace? Just open the windows.

Climate control does a great job of keeping the indoor temperature right at a certain level, but if you simply accept a bit of variation in that temperature, opening the windows can mean a huge reduction in your energy bills.
6. Clean Out Your Pantry

Most of us (myself included) have pantries filled with items bought for specific recipes or picked up because they were on sale. These items are used once or twice, then find their way to the back of the pantry, largely forgotten.

Don’t forget them. Give your pantry a cleaning and figure out everything you have in there. Better yet, strive to use this stuff that you’ve already purchased. Use those items as foundations for recipes for the coming weeks.

In fact…
7. Assemble a Meal Plan for the Next Week and Make a Grocery List Based on That Plan
It’s pretty easy to do this. Just make a grid with seven rows–one for each day of the week–and three columns–for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Then, look through what you have on hand and what’s on sale in your grocery flyer and figure out some recipes using those things that you could easily prepare for meals. Fill those meals into the meal plan, then figure out what groceries you’d actually need to buy to fulfill those meals. There’s your grocery list for the week! Stick to it when you’re at the store and you’re going to find your grocery shopping to be much more financially efficient.

Remember, if you’ve frozen meals before, you can certainly use those to fill in some of the blanks on your meal plan, and any meal that uses up stuff you’ve already bought before it goes bad is a big positive.
8. Clean Out Your Closet

Most people have dozens of items stashed in their closet that they bought intending to use regularly but ended up not finding a way to squeeze it into their life. Those items are just money sitting there taking up space in your closet.

A good closet cleaning can not only earn you some pocket money from selling off the unwanted items on Craigslist, it can also clear up your living space. Suddenly, now you have someplace to put your vacuum instead of the corner of the kitchen, for example.
9. Walk Through Your Monthly Bills

This is a dull task, but it’s worth doing about once a year or so. Just take a copy of the most recent installment of each of your monthly bills and walk step-by-step through the statement. Do you understand what each of the charges are? Do you think that each of the charges are necessary? If your answer to either question is “no,” then a call to customer service is in order. Figure out what all of the items are on your bill and try to remove anything that you don’t want or need on your bill.

Even if you just remove a single one dollar charge from one bill, it’s worth it. That’s $12 a year. That’s $60 over the next five. Often, you’ll trim a lot more than that. Even if you don’t, you’ll have a much better understanding of what you’re paying, which can be useful when shopping around for something like a new cell contract.
10. Talk to Your Neighbors
This final tip might seem surprising, but it’s something so many people overlook. Talk to your neighbors. Get to know them a little bit. It pays off over and over again. If you know your neighbor and need a special kind of screwdriver, you can just ask to borrow one instead of dropping cash at a hardware store. The same is true if you need a bit of sugar or need a hand with something. A neighbor can prevent you from throwing money at those kinds of little things. A neighbor can also be a set of eyeballs on your door when you travel, keeping it safe and picking up packages or newspapers.

Not only that, a neighbor can sometimes turn into a friend, and friendships are invaluable. Spend a few minutes talking to your neighbors and you might find yourself building a relationship that’s far more valuable than you think, regardless of whether your neighbor remains merely an acquaintance or becomes a friend.

This evening, you have many opportunities to trim your spending a bit. What will you choose?

 Courtesy: lifehacker.com
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